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Dr. Scott Lovaas

Practical, experienced LCSW for life transitions

LCSW, CSW Virginia

Experience
30 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Career
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Scott

Dr. Scott Lovaas helps people manage stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, career transitions, addictions, grief, and issues with intimacy and self-esteem.

Background and approach

He also supports those coping with life changes, parenting challenges, ADHD, compassion fatigue, and health-related concerns like cancer or hospice care. Dr.

Lovaas is a licensed clinical social worker with three decades of experience and brings a plainspoken, direct style to sessions. He listens first to understand each person's full situation.

Then he looks at the pieces that influence daily life - work, family history, health, and values - to form a practical plan. He blends different approaches rather than relying on a single method, and he often uses solution-focused steps to help people move forward.

Dr. Lovaas trained in social work and holds the credentials LCSW and CSW.

He has worked in many settings across multiple states and draws on that breadth of experience when shaping care. He describes himself as candid and curious, and he aims to be kind while being straightforward about goals and next steps.

Outside of clinical work he has studied divinity and media, and has traveled widely. Those interests contribute to a creative, flexible outlook in sessions.

He also uses humor and occasional experiential methods to ease tension and open conversation. People who meet with him can expect a collaborative approach that focuses on what matters most to them.

He invites conversation about values, practical changes, and small experiments that can reduce distress and increase meaning.

Approaches and online options that fit your life

Dr. Lovaas commonly uses the Gottman Method to address relationship patterns in plain terms, helping people notice interaction habits and learn practical skills for better communication. He also uses Client-Centered Therapy, which centers conversations on the person's experience and priorities so the therapist follows the client's lead and reflects what matters most. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, appears in his work as a way to identify unhelpful thinking and replace it with small, doable behavior changes that reduce anxiety and improve mood.

Choosing the right approach is a shared process. He will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then try approaches that match those needs. Adjustments happen over time based on what is working and what is not, so the plan evolves collaboratively.

Online formats include live video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which make it easier to fit therapy into work and family schedules. Video lets people use visual cues for deeper conversation, phone calls are helpful when bandwidth is limited or during a break at work, and live chat or messaging can be useful for quick check-ins or shorter support between sessions. These options aim to increase flexibility and help people maintain momentum in their work.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?
He works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, career and parenting concerns, addictions, grief, trauma and many life changes.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
His style is direct and candid while remaining kind and curious; sessions focus on listening first, then practical steps and solutions shaped by the client's goals.
What experience does he bring to therapy?
He has 30 years of clinical experience and has worked in a variety of settings across multiple states, which informs a broad, flexible approach.
What are his credentials and where is he based?
He holds the credentials LCSW and CSW and is licensed in Colorado and Virginia; his practice is based in Virginia.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are offered?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How are costs handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by clicking the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoaching

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Licensed in

Virginia, Colorado

Languages

English