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Paul Clark

Calm, practical support for life’s hard moments

LICSW, LCSW Virginia

Experience
10 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Paul

Paul Clark is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) who brings ten years of clinical experience to his practice. He offers a calm, straightforward approach and focuses on practical steps people can use to feel better.

Background and approach

Paul speaks English and provides online sessions for clients in Virginia and beyond. He focuses on common life stresses such as anxiety, depression, grief, anger, and problems with self-esteem.

He also helps people facing relationship strain, addiction concerns, career transitions, and other major life changes. Communication problems, forgiveness, guilt and shame, and coping after loss are among his frequent areas of attention.

Paul blends several well-known approaches rather than relying on a single method. He uses tools from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to clarify values and goals, and he draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thinking and change behavior.

He also integrates Client-Centered principles to keep sessions collaborative and respectful. Sessions tend to be warm, interactive, and direct.

He aims to build on what is already working and to create plans that fit each person’s life. Paul describes his style as compassionate but honest, and he avoids stigmatizing labels when talking about struggles.

Paul completed both his Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in Social Work at Norfolk State University. He served twenty years on active duty as a Chief Petty Officer and later moved into clinical social work.

That mix of life and professional experience shapes his practical, solution-oriented approach.

Therapeutic approaches you can use online

Paul draws from the Gottman Method to address communication patterns and strengthen how people interact. That approach focuses on practical skills for listening, managing conflict, and rebuilding connection through specific exercises and conversations.

He also uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which helps people clarify what matters to them and take small steps toward those values. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is part of his toolkit too, helping identify unhelpful thoughts and test new behaviors to reduce anxiety and depression.

Choosing the right mix of approaches is a collaborative process. Paul will work with each person to decide which methods match their goals and preferences, and he adjusts plans as progress is made.

Online sessions are offered by video, phone, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs. Video calls allow face-to-face work and guided exercises, phone sessions can be a lower-bandwidth option, and chat or text are useful for quick check-ins or when typing feels easier. These options make it simpler to fit therapy into a busy schedule and keep momentum between longer meetings.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Paul commonly address?
He works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, anger, self-esteem, addictions, and coping with life changes. Relationship strain, communication problems, and career issues are also common topics.
What is his therapeutic style like?
Paul’s sessions are warm, interactive, and straightforward. He blends practical techniques with a respectful, collaborative tone.
What is his clinical background?
He has ten years of clinical experience, earned a Bachelor’s and Master’s in Social Work from Norfolk State University, and served twenty years on active duty as a Chief Petty Officer before practicing social work.
What credentials and location are listed for Paul?
His listed credentials are LICSW and LCSW with a DC LICSW and an AZ LCSW, and he practices from Virginia.
Can I work with him if I live outside the U.S.?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients, allowing people outside the U.S. to connect for online care.
What formats are available for sessions?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different schedules and communication preferences.
How are sessions billed and what does it cost?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemCoaching

Also works with

AddictionsGriefAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changes

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed in

Virginia, District of Columbia, New Jersey, Arizona

Languages

English