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Harold "Lanny" Monson

Hope-focused marriage and family therapist

LMFT Utah

Experience
25 years in practice
Focus areas
Relationship, Family, Parenting
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Harold

Harold "Lanny" Monson is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 25 years of clinical experience. He focuses on helping people who feel stuck, powerless, or overwhelmed.

Background and approach

Lanny uses straightforward conversation and practical steps to help people regain a sense of control and hope. He often works with relationship and parenting concerns, anxiety and stress, trauma and abuse, addictions, mood disorders such as depression and bipolar, and issues around intimacy and self-esteem.

He also supports people facing grief, career transitions, eating concerns, ADHD, and compassion fatigue. His background includes work with diverse and underserved populations.

Lanny draws on several approaches in his work. He uses Client-Centered Therapy to create a respectful space where the person is the expert on their life.

He uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help people change unhelpful patterns of thinking and behavior. He also incorporates elements of the Gottman Method when addressing relationship dynamics.

His experience includes work with survivors of sexual assault, people with substance use histories, domestic violence survivors and offenders, inmates in correctional settings, and outreach to communities facing homelessness and discrimination. That varied work informs a practical, no-nonsense style that aims to restore choice and agency.

Lanny earned a Bachelor of Science from Brigham Young University, a Master of Science in Family and Human Development from Utah State University, and a Post-Master's Certificate in Marriage and Family Therapy from Saint Mary's University. He is licensed as an LMFT in Utah and Washington and practices under the name The Power Within.

How in-person approaches translate to online therapy

Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes listening and respect so the person feels heard and understood; online sessions keep that same focus by letting the client guide topics and pace. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and actions and teaches practical coping skills to change behavior; those exercises transfer well to video or messaging formats. The Gottman Method looks at interaction patterns and communication in relationships and can be used to practice new ways of connecting during remote sessions.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what feels most helpful. Together they will try methods and adjust the plan as needed so the work fits the person's life and needs.

Online formats offer practical benefits. Video calls let people see facial cues and practice communication in real time. Phone sessions require less bandwidth and can work for shorter check-ins. Live chat or text-based messaging can fit into busy days and allow ongoing reflection between sessions. These options make starting and continuing therapy more flexible for many people.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Lanny address?
He assists with relationship conflict, parenting challenges, grief, trauma and abuse, addictions, anxiety, depression, bipolar, ADHD, self-esteem, and many other life stressors.
What is his general therapy style?
He uses a direct, practical style rooted in respect for the client. Sessions mix listening, problem solving, and skill-building tailored to each person.
What is his experience background?
He has 25 years of experience working with survivors of sexual assault, people with substance use issues, domestic violence contexts, correctional populations, and underserved communities.
What credentials and region are listed?
He holds the LMFT credential and is licensed as a UT LMFT and WA LMFT. His practice is based in Utah.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.
What session formats are available online?
He provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging for remote therapy.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteem

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Licensed in

Utah, Washington

Languages

English