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Rochelle Nakoa

Practical, person-centered care for complex life challenges

LCSW Missouri

Experience
13 years in practice
Focus areas
Addictions, Family, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English

About Rochelle

Rochelle Nakoa is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) based in Missouri. She draws on 13 years of practice to help people manage anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, and relationship or intimacy-related concerns.

Background and approach

Her style is straightforward and person-focused, with an emphasis on practical steps people can use between sessions. Rochelle listens first and helps clients name what matters most.

She encourages writing and simple exercises to sort thoughts and emotions. Sessions aim to reduce shame and build clearer choices for daily living.

Her background includes supporting people through grief, caregiving stress, chronic illness, and major life transitions. She has worked in hospice care and with veterans, and has experience addressing sexual trauma and intimate partner violence.

Those roles shaped a calm, direct approach to safety and recovery. Rochelle combines client-centered listening with techniques from cognitive behavioral and attachment-based approaches.

She helps people notice unhelpful patterns, test new ways of relating, and practice small behavioral shifts. She also uses elements of the Gottman Method for relationship concerns when relevant.

Clients can expect a collaborative plan with concrete goals. Rochelle offers a balance of talk and action so progress shows in real life.

Her work is meant to be human, respectful, and suited to each person's pace.

How Rochelle blends approaches for online care

Rochelle uses client-centered therapy to build a trusting, nonjudgmental relationship where the client sets the pace and agenda. This approach focuses on listening, reflecting, and helping people recognize their own goals and strengths.

She also draws on Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early relationships shape current patterns. This helps when people struggle with trust, abandonment fears, or repeating painful relationship cycles. For practical skills, she uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing small behavior changes to reduce symptoms like anxiety or disrupted sleep.

Finding the right mix of methods is part of the work. Rochelle collaborates with each person to choose approaches that match their concerns, goals, and comfort level. She will adjust techniques over time based on what helps most.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make care flexible. Video is useful for deeper conversations and interactive exercises, phone calls can fit a shorter break in a busy day, and messaging or live chat can serve quick check-ins or ongoing support. These options help people fit therapy into real life and keep momentum between sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Rochelle commonly address?
She helps with anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, parenting strain, ADHD, and related life changes.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her approach is client-centered and practical. She listens first, uses writing and simple exercises, and focuses on clear steps people can try between sessions.
What is her clinical background and experience?
Rochelle has 13 years of clinical experience and has worked in hospice care, with veterans, and in corrections settings, which informed her work with sexual trauma and intimate partner violence.
What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?
She is an LCSW licensed in Missouri and practices as a clinical social worker in that state.
Are sessions available in other languages or internationally?
Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are offered online?
Therapy is available via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different schedules and needs.
How does billing and cost work for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseCareer difficultiesDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

13+ years

Licensed in

Missouri

Languages

English