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Pamela Varas

Compassionate counsellor focused on healing and growth

ACA Australia

Experience
3 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centred Therapy
Languages
English

About Pamela

Pamela Varas is an ACA counsellor who began her counselling career after graduating with a Bachelor of Counselling from ACAP in 2022. She has worked in brief solution-focused support roles and in independent practice, and brings a warm, compassionate approach to each session.

Background and approach

Pamela has recorded over 911 client contact hours and around 75 hours of clinical supervision, including both individual and group formats. She has experience providing support to women who experienced domestic violence and to carers and people living with dementia.

Pamela opened Rebuild Together Counselling to offer ongoing emotional support in the community and to pursue work that aligns with her values. She is about to begin a Masters in Psychotherapy and Counselling to deepen her knowledge of trauma-informed care and psychotherapy.

Pamela helps people facing depression, anxiety and the effects of childhood trauma. She also supports concerns such as stress, grief, sleeping problems, compassion fatigue and ADHD-related struggles.

Relationship difficulties, communication problems, infidelity and feelings of abandonment are frequent topics she addresses. Her practice draws on person-centred methods alongside Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy.

Pamela also uses Solution-Focused Therapy and elements of trauma-focused work in sessions. She favours straightforward, practical conversations that focus on small, achievable steps.

Pamela aims to build trusting relationships and to create a calm, respectful space for clients to talk through difficult experiences. She meets people where they are and works collaboratively to set goals and try strategies that fit each person’s life.

Therapeutic approaches for online work and how they help

Pamela blends several approaches that adapt well to online formats. The Gottman Method is used to help people understand interaction patterns and improve communication; it focuses on practical skills for managing conflict and strengthening connection. Client-Centred Therapy emphasises a respectful, non-judgemental listening stance and helps people feel heard while they find their own solutions. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) targets unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns and offers concrete tools to reduce anxiety, depression and sleep problems.

Deciding which approach to use is a collaborative process. Pamela will talk with each person about goals, preferences and what has helped or not helped in the past. Together they will try methods that fit the person's situation and adjust them as needed over time.

Online therapy with Pamela is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to provide flexibility. Video calls suit more in-depth conversations and visual cues, phone sessions work well for lower bandwidth or when audio-only contact is preferred, live chat can be useful for shorter check-ins, and messaging supports ongoing reflection between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and other commitments while maintaining a regular course of support.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can Pamela help with?
Pamela supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief and sleeping difficulties. She also works with issues like compassion fatigue, relationship problems, ADHD-related struggles and LGBT concerns.
What is her general approach in sessions?
She uses a warm, person-centred style and mixes in practical techniques from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy. Sessions focus on clear, manageable steps that suit each person.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Pamela has three years of experience and has logged more than 911 client contact hours plus about 75 hours of clinical supervision.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is an ACA counsellor and practises in Australia.
In which languages are sessions available?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.
Which session formats does she offer?
Pamela provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging, so people can choose what works best for them.
How does pricing work for her sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
What do I need to do to start therapy?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

LGBTSleeping disordersCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centred TherapyCognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

3+ years

Registered with

ACA

Languages

English