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Nina Lupo

Practical, direct therapy for stress and relationships

LMFT Washington

Experience
25 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Nina

Nina Lupo is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 25 years of clinical experience. She works with adults, young adults, and individuals facing relationship, stress, trauma, and life transition challenges.

Background and approach

Nina writes and speaks plainly in sessions and focuses on practical steps people can try between meetings. Nina draws on what has helped people for decades.

She uses Client-Centered techniques to follow each person's priorities. She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thinking patterns and Emotionally-Focused ideas to notice and change how emotions shape relationships.

Her background includes undergraduate work with Dr. Her style is direct and compassionate.

She helps people clarify goals, try short exercises, and build steady habits that reduce anxiety and increase connection. Sessions can include practical tools for coping with panic, grief, or work stress, as well as ways to address communication and attachment concerns.

Nina has worked in non-profit agencies, education, and independent practice. She has also served as a counselor, case manager, consultant, and supervisor.

That variety informs an adaptable approach that meets people where they are. For parents and adults dealing with body image, identity, parenting strain, or career crossroads, she offers concrete strategies and collaborative planning.

Nina aims to help people access their strengths and make measurable progress, whether they need short-term coaching or longer-term support.

Approaches that translate well to online therapy

Gottman-informed work focuses on specific communication skills and patterns in relationships. Online sessions let couples or partners practice small exercises and scripted conversations with guidance, then report back on what changed. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes the person's priorities and pacing; in remote sessions the therapist listens closely and follows each person's goals, which can help shape short-term plans or deeper work. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, breaks problems into thoughts, behaviors, and feelings and uses simple homework tasks to test new ways of thinking. That structure adapts well to video or messaging formats for follow-up between meetings.

Choosing the right approach is part of the therapy process. The therapist will work collaboratively to decide which methods fit best for a person's needs, goals, and preferences. That may mean combining techniques or shifting emphasis as progress is tracked together.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for practicing interactions and noticing nonverbal cues. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in fits the day. Live chat and text messaging work well for quick problem-solving, step-by-step coaching, and ongoing support between appointments, offering flexibility to fit therapy into a busy life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Nina help with?
Nina helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, trauma and abuse, parenting strains, grief, career and workplace problems, self-esteem and body image, ADHD, and other life changes.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her approach is direct, compassionate, and collaborative. She blends client-centered listening with solution-focused and cognitive behavioral techniques to set goals and try practical tools.
How long has she practiced and what is her background?
She brings 25 years of experience and has worked in non-profit, education, and independent practice settings. Her education includes undergraduate work connected to Gottman research and graduate studies in clinical psychology emphasizing marriage and family therapy.
What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?
She holds the LMFT credential and is licensed in Washington as WA LMFT LF.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English only and international clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available online?
Therapy is offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are arranged through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with Nina?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseParenting issuesSelf esteem

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Licensed in

Washington

Languages

English