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Marla Monk

Relationship-focused social worker

LCSW, LISW-CP South Carolina

Experience
5 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Marla

Marla Monk is a licensed clinical social worker who uses relationship-focused methods to help people navigate stress and life transitions. She brings a calm, practical style to sessions and draws on approaches that focus on emotions, behavior, and communication.

Background and approach

Marla works from South Carolina and conducts therapy in English. Marla combines the Gottman Method with client-centered care to help people improve communication and rebuild connection.

She also uses cognitive behavioral techniques to identify unhelpful thoughts and develop concrete coping skills. In sessions she helps people practice new ways of talking and listening so problems feel more manageable.

Her background includes work with trauma, grief, and domestic violence. Marla helps people who have faced sexual assault, military-related stress, caregiving strain, or difficult family patterns.

She also supports those handling parenting challenges, divorce and separation, and intimacy-related concerns. Marla holds clinical social work licenses in California and South Carolina: Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and Licensed Independent Social Worker with Clinical Practice designation (LISW-CP).

She has around five years of clinical experience in direct mental health services in settings that involve prevention and education as well as advocacy. In a session people can expect a conversational, goal-focused approach that mixes listening with practical tools.

Marla uses evidence-informed methods like CBT and Emotionally-Focused Therapy to target anxiety, depression, and relationship struggles. She tailors strategies to each person’s needs and helps set small, clear steps to move forward.

How therapeutic approaches work online

Gottman Method work focuses on improving communication and reducing conflict in close relationships. Online sessions using Gottman-informed exercises can include guided conversations, skill practice, and tools to rebuild connection and reduce recurring arguments.

Client-Centered Therapy centers the person’s experience and priorities. In virtual sessions this looks like attentive listening, reflection, and helping clients set goals that feel meaningful to them. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, breaks down patterns of thought and behavior and builds practical coping skills for anxiety, depression, and stress. Online CBT sessions often include brief exercises and homework people can use between meetings.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss your goals and preferences, then suggest one or a mix of methods to try. Goals and techniques are reviewed together so adjustments are made based on what helps most.

Online therapy offers flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for face-to-face work and relationship exercises, phone calls can fit a break at work or require less bandwidth, and chat or messaging can support brief check-ins or skill reminders. These options help people fit therapy into busy lives and make consistent progress with fewer scheduling barriers.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Marla help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting strain, career-related stress, and compassion fatigue. Additional focuses include adoption and foster care concerns, caregiver stress, and post-traumatic stress.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Marla blends client-centered listening with structured techniques. Expect a mix of conversation, skill practice, and communication work aimed at clear, manageable goals.
What experience does she bring?
She has about five years of clinical experience in mental health work, including roles in prevention, education, and victim advocacy related to trauma and domestic violence.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She holds LCSW and LISW-CP credentials and practices from South Carolina. The credential LCSW stands for Licensed Clinical Social Worker and LISW-CP indicates licensed independent social work with clinical practice.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
How are sessions delivered?
Marla offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different needs and schedules.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What do I do to begin therapy?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCompassion fatigue

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Licensed in

California, South Carolina, Virginia

Languages

English