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Lamar Sykes

Relationship-focused therapist who listens and guides

LMFT Indiana

Experience
14 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Family, Anger
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Lamar

Lamar Sykes is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with 14 years of clinical experience. He focuses on helping people improve communication, manage stress and anxiety, and work through relationship and family challenges.

Background and approach

Lamar aims to make therapy straightforward and practical for busy lives. He uses approaches like the Gottman Method to address relationship dynamics and Client-Centered Therapy to create a respectful, listening-first space.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy tools are used to tackle unhelpful thoughts that fuel anxiety, depression, and anger. Sessions often include clear steps people can practice between meetings.

His background includes school-based therapy and independent practice, giving him experience with individual clients, couples, teenagers, young adults, and Veterans. He combines that experience with a focus on concrete skills for issues such as parenting, communication problems, substance use concerns, grief, trauma, and workplace stress.

Lamar earned a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology from California Baptist University after completing a Bachelor of Arts in psychology at Butler University, where he also played varsity football. He lives in Indianapolis with his wife and three children.

Outside of work he enjoys sports, comedies, and family time. He aims to keep sessions down-to-earth and goal-focused so people leave with practical next steps.

Online relationship and skills-focused therapy

He often uses the Gottman Method to look at communication patterns and rebuild connection in relationships. That method focuses on clear behaviors and interactions couples can notice and practice, which can help with recurring conflicts and intimacy-related issues.

He also uses Client-Centered Therapy to make sure people feel heard and respected; that approach emphasizes listening and following the client's lead. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to identify unhelpful thinking and to teach practical skills for managing anxiety, depression, and anger.

Finding the right mix of approaches is a collaborative process. The therapist works with each person or partner to set goals, try techniques, and adjust methods based on what feels most effective and doable in daily life.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility. Video calls let people see nonverbal cues, phone sessions use less bandwidth and can fit a break at work, and chat or messaging can suit brief check-ins or those who prefer not to be on camera. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule and to keep progress consistent over time.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Lamar address?
He helps with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family issues, anger, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting strain, addictive behaviors, ADHD, bipolar concerns, and work-related stress.
How would you describe his therapy style?
He blends listening-focused Client-Centered Therapy with practical tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and relationship work influenced by the Gottman Method.
What experience does he bring to sessions?
He has 14 years of experience and has worked in school-based settings and independent practice with individuals, couples, teenagers, young adults, and Veterans.
What are his credentials and location?
He is an LMFT licensed in Indiana and practices from that state.
Which languages are supported and can international clients join?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different schedules and needs.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsAnger managementDepressionADHD

Also works with

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Licensed in

Indiana

Languages

English