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Kristin Puleo

Practical therapy for moving past feeling stuck

LMHC New York

Experience
14 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Kristin

Kristin Puleo is a licensed mental health counselor who helps people untangle feeling stuck and regain energy for daily life. She focuses on practical steps that lower anxiety, lift mood, and rebuild confidence so small wins add up to real change.

Background and approach

She listens first and asks straightforward questions to find where the trouble begins. Sessions often include talking through thoughts and habits, learning simple behavior changes, and practicing new ways of relating to others.

Humor is used when it fits to make hard conversations easier to sit with. Her approach draws on evidence-informed tools such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, cognitive behavioral techniques, and attachment-focused ideas to address relationship strain, trauma, grief, and mood concerns.

She also uses concepts from the Gottman Method when relevant to help clarify patterns between people. Over 14 years Kristin has worked with people facing stress, addiction, ADHD, sleep and eating concerns, caregiver strain, and career transitions.

She helps with identity questions including LGBT and gender dysphoria issues, and supports those coping with chronic illness or major life changes. Sessions are aimed at identifying the source of discomfort, building small habits, and creating clear steps toward goals.

People who are ready to try new perspectives and do focused work will find a direct, compassionate style and practical tools to move forward.

Therapeutic approaches for online sessions

Kristin uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values; this approach is useful for anxiety, depression, and life transitions. She also draws on Attachment-Based Therapy to explore how early relationship patterns shape current connections and communication, which can help with intimacy-related concerns and trust issues. Kristin incorporates elements of the Gottman Method to make interaction patterns between partners clearer and to teach practical skills for improving communication.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. She works with each person to match methods to their goals and comfort level, adjusting strategies as progress is made. Clients help set priorities and decide which tools to try first so therapy stays focused and relevant.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is well suited for in-depth work and skills practice, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat supports shorter check-ins, and text messaging helps with ongoing encouragement and brief updates between sessions. These options provide flexibility for scheduling and for fitting therapy into busy lives.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Kristin address?
She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, relationship and intimacy-related issues, addiction, ADHD, sleep and eating problems, parenting and caregiver strain, and career and life changes.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her style is direct and practical with room for warmth and humor. She uses talking, behavior strategies, and skills practice tailored to each person's needs.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has 14 years of clinical experience working with a wide range of concerns from mood disorders to trauma and caregiver stress.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is a licensed mental health counselor, NY LMHC, based in New York.
Which languages are offered and can international clients connect?
Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
She works via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How are fees and billing handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemADHD

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Licensed in

New York

Languages

English