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Holly Lampkin

Compassionate, practical therapy for real-life struggles

LMFT Oklahoma

Experience
7 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Holly

Holly Lampkin is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in Oklahoma. She helps people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, relationships, intimacy concerns, depression, addiction, grief, eating and body image issues, and life transitions.

Background and approach

Holly uses straightforward language and practical tools so clients can make steady changes. She offers an open, nonjudgmental approach that focuses on goals and coping skills.

Holly draws on several evidence-informed approaches to shape sessions. She uses the Gottman Method ideas when addressing relationship patterns and communication.

She also incorporates Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice values and take committed action, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. Sessions are collaborative and tailored.

Holly listens for what matters most to each person and then builds small, actionable steps toward those goals. She works with issues like attachment and abandonment, codependency, sexual concerns such as kink and intimacy, and recovery-related struggles without medical or judgmental language.

With seven years of clinical experience, Holly brings a practical focus to emotional work. She helps clients set clear goals, practice new skills, and track progress over time.

Her style balances warmth with direct guidance so people can make meaningful changes. Holly provides care in English and practices in Oklahoma.

She offers a mix of session formats to fit different schedules and needs, and she uses a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How evidence-based approaches work online

Holly often combines the Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to address relationships and emotional patterns. The Gottman Method focuses on improving communication and reducing conflict through specific skills and exercises that partners can practice. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice what matters to them and take value-driven action even when feelings are uncomfortable. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy targets the thoughts and behaviors that keep problems stuck, offering concrete tools to test and change them.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Holly treats it as a collaborative process where therapist and client decide together what fits best. She will check in about goals and preferences and adjust methods as progress is made or needs change.

Online therapy with Holly is available by video call, phone session, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video is useful for longer sessions and exercises that benefit from visual cues. Phone calls can be a good option when bandwidth is limited or for shorter check-ins. Live chat and text messaging work well for brief updates, ongoing coaching, or tracking progress between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules and maintain steady momentum toward goals.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?
She supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief, eating and body image concerns, intimacy and relationship issues, and life changes. Additional focus areas include attachment and abandonment, codependency, domestic violence, and sexual concerns such as kink.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her style is collaborative and direct. Sessions focus on clear goals, skill building, and practical steps that people can use between meetings.
What is her clinical background?
She has seven years of experience working with a range of concerns and draws on evidence-informed methods like ACT, CBT, EFT, Client-Centered Therapy, and the Gottman Method in her work.
Where is she licensed and based?
She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, LMFT, with licensure listed for Colorado and Oklahoma and practices in Oklahoma.
Does she offer sessions in other languages or internationally?
Sessions are offered in English. She is not accepting international clients.
What session formats are available?
Sessions are available via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different schedules and needs.
How does billing and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability. Sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I get started with therapy here?
To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also works with

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Licensed in

Oklahoma, Colorado

Languages

English