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David Hayden

Compassionate counselor focused on practical change

LPC Colorado

Experience
18 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Anger
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About David

David Hayden is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) based in Colorado who helps people work through stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and relationship concerns. He offers straightforward support for addictions, anger, self-esteem, and motivation.

Background and approach

David aims to make the first steps feel manageable and affirms the courage it takes to seek help. He combines practical conversation with focused techniques to meet each person where they are.

Sessions are shaped around the person's goals, with clear steps to try between meetings. David uses tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and build values-driven action.

When relationship patterns matter, he draws on principles from the Gottman Method to help people understand interaction cycles and improve communication. That work is adapted to the needs of the individual rather than a one-size-fits-all plan.

The emphasis is on simple skills that can be practiced in daily life. David brings 18 years of counseling experience to his practice in Colorado.

He describes his style as respectful, sensitive, and compassionate, and tailors each plan to the person in front of him. He also supports concerns related to parenting, career transitions, trauma and abuse, and coping with life changes.

People may find his approach helpful when they want a mix of talk, skill-building, and real-world homework. He supports exploration of identity and stressors related to LGBT issues, as well as a range of additional focuses such as adoption and foster care, first responder issues, and end-of-life counseling.

Therapeutic approaches and online options

David works with methods from the Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Gottman-informed work focuses on understanding interaction patterns and improving communication, which can help people reduce conflict and build better day-to-day habits around listening and repair. ACT helps people notice difficult thoughts and choose actions that match their values, which can be useful for anxiety, depression, and life changes. CBT emphasizes identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors through practical exercises and homework to reduce symptoms and increase coping skills.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. He will talk with each person about their goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t worked before. Together they decide which combination of techniques to try and adjust the plan as progress is made.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs. Video is useful for in-depth conversation and visual cues, phone can be easier when bandwidth is limited or during a quick break, and chat or messaging can support shorter check-ins or ongoing coaching between sessions. These options make scheduling more flexible and can help therapy fit into busy routines.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does David help with?
He works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, addictions, anger, self-esteem, and motivation among other concerns.
What is his therapeutic style like?
He blends conversational support with skill-building approaches such as CBT and ACT, aiming for concrete steps to try between sessions.
How much clinical experience does he have?
He has 18 years of counseling experience and practices as a licensed professional counselor (LPC) in Colorado.
Where is he located and licensed?
He is licensed in Colorado as an LPC and provides services from that state.
Which languages are offered for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can international clients work with him?
He does not accept international clients at this time.
What formats are available for sessions?
Sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How are costs and scheduling handled?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time; begin by selecting Start Therapy and completing the short matching questionnaire to schedule.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefSleeping disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAutism and Asperger SyndromeCoping with natural or human-caused disasterFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIntellectual disabilityJealousyVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSex addictionSexual assault and abuseTraumatic brain injury

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman Method

Experience

18+ years

Licensed in

Colorado

Languages

English