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Cynthia Cunningham

Practical guidance from long-term recovery

LMFT California

Experience
27 years in practice
Focus areas
Addictions, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Cynthia

Cynthia Cunningham is a California licensed marriage and family therapist with 27 years of clinical experience. She draws on long personal recovery to guide people through addiction, codependency, and difficult relationship patterns.

Background and approach

Cynthia speaks plainly in sessions and focuses on skills people can use right away. She helps people stop chasing relationships that hurt and learn to set kind, firm boundaries.

Cynthia also works with anxiety, panic, depression, bipolar mood issues, and trouble sleeping or eating. Practical strategies from cognitive behavioral therapy are combined with attention to attachment and relationship dynamics.

Her approach keeps the person in charge of therapy. Clients choose goals and pace, and she tailors tools to individual needs.

Sessions emphasize short-term coping skills and deeper changes that support long-term sobriety and healthier relationships. Cynthia offers support for people coping with major life changes, grief, caregiver stress, and career strain.

She also addresses identity and self-esteem concerns, body image, and communication problems that get in the way of daily life. She draws on decades of experience to help people spot unhelpful patterns and practice new ways of relating.

She believes in beginning where a person is and walking alongside them as they build new habits. Cynthia invites people ready for change to take a first step and try a different way of handling old problems.

How online approaches and relationship work come together

Cynthia integrates the Gottman Method with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to focus on relationship patterns and personal values. The Gottman Method looks at how partners communicate and manage conflict, helping people recognize destructive cycles and practice different interaction skills. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people clarify what matters to them and take committed action, which can reduce avoidance and increase meaningful steps forward.

She also uses Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early bonds shape current ways of relating. That approach helps people notice patterns of closeness and distance and try new responses that build more stable connections. Together these approaches help with relationship challenges, intimacy-related issues, and coping with emotional triggers. Cynthia treats finding the right approach as a collaborative process. She will work with each person to choose methods that fit their goals and comfort level, and she adjusts tools as progress and needs change.

Online therapy offers several practical benefits for her work. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction for communication practice, phone sessions are useful when bandwidth is limited, live chat supports quick check-ins, and text-based messaging can help with brief updates or homework between sessions. These formats make it easier to maintain consistency and fit therapy into a busy life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Cynthia address?
She works with addictions, relationship and family problems, anger, self-esteem, stress, anxiety, grief, intimacy issues, eating and sleeping problems, career stress, bipolar and depression, and ADHD among other concerns.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
She uses plain language and practical skills. Sessions mix cognitive behavioral techniques with attachment and client-centered approaches to make changes people can use right away.
What background does Cynthia bring to therapy?
She has 27 years of experience and long-term personal recovery from substance use and codependency, which she uses to inform practical, empathetic support.
What credentials and where is she located?
She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a CA LMFT credential and practices in California.
In which languages are sessions offered?
Sessions are offered in English only and international clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and communication preferences.
How is cost handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with Cynthia?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsAnger managementSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodHypnotherapyImago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

27+ years

Licensed in

California

Languages

English