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CO Portrait of Dr. Carlos D. Ortiz

Dr. Carlos D. Ortiz

Experienced New York counselor focused on relationships and coping

LMHC New York

Experience
15 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English, Spanish

About Carlos

Dr. Carlos D.

Background and approach

Ortiz is a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) based in New York with 15 years of clinical experience. He also holds a PhD in Clinical Psychology.

He draws on long work history across settings to help people find clearer ways forward. He has worked with people involved in foster care and with adults who have served in the military and first responder roles.

He also has experience supporting executives, athletes, and people coping with complex life roles. He mentions his background as a Marine Corps veteran, a former blue-collar worker, and a father to explain why he connects with men managing work and family demands.

Dr. Ortiz focuses on common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship trouble, trauma and abuse, and ADHD.

He also addresses issues linked to adoption and foster care, infidelity, codependency, dissociation, and other personality-related struggles. His approach aims to be straightforward and practical.

In sessions he emphasizes a respectful, nonjudgmental atmosphere where people can talk about feelings and choices. He uses methods like the Gottman Method for relationship work, cognitive behavioral techniques for thinking and behavior patterns, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to clarify values and action.

He offers therapy in English and Spanish and provides several online options, including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. For those who prefer faith-informed support he can incorporate Bible-based pastoral counseling when requested.

Approaches you can use online and how they help

Dr. Ortiz uses the Gottman Method to focus on relationship patterns and improve communication between partners, helping people reduce conflict and rebuild connection. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, is offered to help people clarify what matters to them and take small steps toward those values even when feelings are difficult. Attachment-Based Therapy is used to look at how early relationship patterns affect current connections and to build more supported ways of relating.

Finding the right approach is part of the process and happens together. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and the problems they want to solve, then choose or combine methods that fit those needs. That collaborative planning helps keep work practical and focused on real-life changes.

Online therapy formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week. Video is useful for face-to-face conversation and relationship work, phone sessions can be a good shorter check-in or when bandwidth is low, and chat or messaging can suit quick updates or ongoing support between appointments. These options give flexibility for different schedules and communication styles while allowing licensed professionals to provide consistent, ongoing care.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?
He helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, relationship trouble, trauma and abuse, and ADHD, plus related concerns such as infidelity, codependency, and issues tied to adoption and foster care.
How does he approach therapy in sessions?
He keeps sessions practical and direct, creating a respectful space to talk through feelings and decisions. He blends relationship work with tools to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors.
What is his professional background?
He holds a PhD in Clinical Psychology and has 15 years of professional experience working across clinical settings, including work with veterans, law enforcement, athletes, and people connected to foster care.
Where is he located and what credential does he hold?
He practices in New York and is licensed as an LMHC in New York.
Can sessions be conducted in other languages?
Sessions are offered in English and Spanish.
Are international clients accepted?
He does not accept international clients at this time.
What session formats are offered?
He provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different scheduling and communication needs.
How are costs and getting started handled?
Cost varies by location and therapist arrangements and uses a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesInfidelityJealousyVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPhobiasPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSexual assault and abuseSomatizationYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman Method

Experience

15+ years

Licensed in

New York

Languages

English, Spanish