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Bonneka Seals

Compassionate counselor for people feeling stuck

LPC Wisconsin

Experience
10 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Self esteem
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Bonneka

Bonneka Seals, LPC, focuses on helping people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or worn out by life. She speaks plainly and aims to make the first steps less scary.

Background and approach

Her approach centers on hearing where you are and working toward practical change that fits your life. She uses a mix of methods to match each person's needs.

Sessions tend to be collaborative - she asks questions, listens, and helps you test small changes. That can mean practicing new ways to cope with stress, shifting patterns that feed low mood, or building skills to manage anger and anxiety.

Bonneka brings ten years of experience as a Licensed Professional Counselor in Wisconsin. She helps people facing depression, anxiety, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship difficulties, grief, parenting strain, and career stress.

She also supports people dealing with ADHD, bipolar symptoms, and burnout or compassion fatigue. Her clinical toolkit includes approaches such as the Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), client-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT).

She adapts techniques to the situation rather than following a single script. Sessions emphasize building self-awareness, practical skills, and clearer choices.

Work may include learning coping strategies, improving communication, addressing shame or guilt, and creating step-by-step plans for change. Bonneka encourages clients to lead the pace and direction of their work together.

Therapeutic approaches and how online sessions help

Bonneka commonly uses the Gottman Method to address relationship patterns and communication. This approach focuses on practical exercises and conversations that can reduce conflict and rebuild connection. It is helpful for people wanting clearer ways to talk and understand recurring relationship struggles.

She also uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, which centers on noticing thoughts and values-based action. ACT helps people who are stuck in avoidance or worrying to take steps toward a life they value. Client-centered therapy is another thread in her work, meaning she follows the client's lead, listens closely, and shapes the work around each person's goals.

Finding the right approach happens together. Bonneka will discuss options, try techniques in sessions, and adjust based on what helps. Clients are invited to give feedback so therapy fits their goals and pace.

Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video sessions allow face-to-face interaction for skill practice and conversation. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or when a camera is not preferred. Chat and messaging support shorter check-ins, real-time problem solving, or ongoing reflections between sessions. These formats make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule and to continue work when in-person visits are difficult.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Bonneka commonly help with?
She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship and intimacy struggles, grief, self-esteem, parenting strain, and career challenges among other issues.
What is her general therapy style?
Her style is collaborative and person-focused. Sessions involve listening, practical skill-building, and testing small changes together.
What experience does she bring to sessions?
Bonneka has ten years of clinical experience working with adults facing mood, trauma, addiction, and life transition challenges.
What are her credentials and location?
She is a Licensed Professional Counselor - LPC - practicing in Wisconsin.
Which languages are supported and are international clients accepted?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
How are sessions delivered?
She works with video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on what fits the client.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies by location and therapist terms; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed in

Wisconsin

Languages

English