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Erin Spensley

Calm, practical therapy for real-life challenges

LPC Wisconsin

Experience
6 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English

About Erin

Erin Spensley is a licensed professional counselor in Wisconsin who helps people manage anxiety, depression, stress, and relationship concerns. She brings six years of clinical experience to sessions and aims to make therapy straightforward and usable.

Background and approach

Her work emphasizes an affirming stance for LGBT clients and those processing trauma or big life changes. Erin uses practical, collaborative methods so clients learn skills they can use day to day.

Conversations focus on clear goals, better communication, and coping strategies for mood and stress. She pays attention to how attachment patterns and relationship habits shape emotions and behavior.

Her background includes approaches such as the Gottman Method, attachment-based work, cognitive behavioral therapy, and dialectical behavior therapy. These help when the goal is to improve communication, reduce anxiety, or build healthier routines.

Sessions mix talk, skill practice, and small experiments clients can try between appointments. Erin often supports people dealing with grief, addiction struggles, parenting stress, body image and eating concerns, career pressures, and compassion fatigue.

She also works with issues like ADHD, intimacy-related worries, and a wide range of attachment or personality challenges. The aim is to identify what matters most and move toward practical change.

In conversation she keeps language plain and direct. People can expect a steady, respectful approach that centers their experience and preferences.

Work is paced to each person's needs, with attention to concrete tools and ongoing problem solving.

Online approaches that focus on relationships and coping

Erin blends approaches that target how people relate to others and manage intense feelings. The Gottman Method concentrates on communication patterns and practical exercises to improve interaction and reduce conflict. It is useful when couples or partners want clearer ways to talk and rebuild connection.

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds shape current relationships and emotional responses. This work helps people recognize patterns, feel more understood, and try different ways of relating. Client-Centered Therapy puts the person's experience at the center, using listening and reflection so clients feel heard and can decide what changes to try.

Choosing an approach is collaborative. Erin will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most helpful. Together they pick or combine methods and adjust the plan as progress is made.

Online sessions offer flexibility across formats. Video calls are good for face-to-face conversation and demonstrations. Phone sessions can fit a break at work or require less bandwidth. Live chat and text-based messaging allow shorter check-ins, written reflections, or ongoing support between appointments. These options make it easier to keep therapy consistent while balancing daily life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Erin address?
She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, trauma and abuse, addictions, parenting strain, sleep and eating problems, and related challenges.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Erin takes a collaborative, plainspoken approach that mixes talk with practical skill building. Sessions emphasize clear goals and tools clients can use between meetings.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has six years of professional experience working with a range of emotional and interpersonal concerns.
What credentials and region apply to this practice?
Erin is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, practicing in Wisconsin.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging.
How are session costs handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with Erin?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Licensed in

Wisconsin

Languages

English