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Abigail Kelsey Judge

Compassionate counselor focused on practical progress

LPC, LCPC Missouri

Experience
15 years in practice
Focus areas
Addictions, Family, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Abigail

Abigail Kelsey Judge is a licensed professional counselor practicing in Missouri. She brings 15 years of clinical experience and focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, and major life changes.

Background and approach

Abigail aims to build trust quickly and to work in a straightforward, practical way that respects each person’s time and priorities. She has worked across many settings and with many kinds of struggles, using individual, family, and group formats to help people move forward from crises.

Her background includes supporting people after loss, job changes, relationship upheaval, and other events that disrupt daily life. Abigail emphasizes clear goals so sessions stay focused on what matters most to the client.

Abigail draws on client-centered approaches that keep the person’s needs central, and she uses cognitive behavioral techniques to help change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. She also incorporates elements of dialectical behavior therapy and mindfulness to teach emotional regulation and practical coping skills.

The Gottman Method is part of her toolkit when relationship patterns are a concern. She describes herself as direct, present, and purposeful in session.

Abigail encourages clients to set the pace and helps them problem-solve one step at a time. Sessions are designed to be efficient and focused so clients leave with clear next steps.

People who prefer a collaborative, pragmatic style often find her approach useful. Abigail is flexible with scheduling and offers early mornings, later evenings, and weekend times when needed.

She also works with international clients in English.

Approaches that guide online sessions

Abigail uses Client-Centered Therapy to keep the conversation focused on each person's experience and goals. This approach emphasizes listening, empathy, and letting the client lead when figuring out what matters most. It is often useful for people who want a compassionate, nonjudgmental space to talk.

She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify and change unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns. CBT offers concrete tools for managing anxiety, depression, and stress by breaking problems into manageable steps. When emotional regulation is a concern she integrates elements of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to teach skills like distress tolerance and emotion regulation.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Abigail will discuss goals, preferences, and practical needs to decide which methods to emphasize. She adapts techniques as progress is made so therapy stays responsive to what the client finds most helpful.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to match different rhythms of life. Video offers face-to-face conversation and visual cues, phone calls work well when bandwidth is limited, live chat supports shorter check-ins, and messaging lets people send thoughts between sessions. These options make scheduling easier and let clients pick what fits their day.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Abigail address?
She helps people facing anxiety, depression, addictions, grief, parenting stress, trauma, and major life changes among other issues.
What is her style in therapy?
Her approach is straightforward and collaborative. She works to build rapport quickly and focuses sessions on practical problem solving.
How much experience does she have?
Abigail has 15 years of clinical experience working in individual, family, and group settings.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds LPC and LCPC credentials and practices in the state of Missouri.
Which languages are offered and can international clients connect?
Sessions are offered in English and Abigail does accept international clients.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to meet different needs and schedules.
How are costs handled?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseAnger managementDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTGriefParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAutism and Asperger SyndromeControl issuesDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessIntellectual disabilityLife purposeMood disordersPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Licensed in

Missouri, Kansas

Languages

English