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Vivienne Robertson

Experienced relationship-focused counsellor

BACP United Kingdom

Experience
30 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Self esteem
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centred Therapy
Languages
English

About Vivienne

Vivienne Robertson uses relationship-focused methods alongside practical talking therapies to help people manage stress, anxiety and relationship strain. She draws on three decades of experience in counselling and coaching to offer calm, straightforward support.

Background and approach

Vivienne is a BACP member, which reflects her professional standing with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. Clients come for help with low mood, sleep problems, anger and life changes.

She also supports people dealing with grief, intimacy concerns, and issues around self-esteem and purpose. Relationship difficulties, communication problems and the effects of separation or infidelity are common themes in her work.

Her background includes long experience in the NHS and with agencies such as Relate, plus many years in independent practice. Vivienne holds a Master of Science in Mindfulness Studies from the University of Aberdeen, and she brings that knowledge into practical sessions.

In therapy she uses client-centred listening alongside structured tools from cognitive behavioural approaches and emotion-regulation skills. The Gottman Method also informs how she approaches relationship work, focusing on dialogue and patterns between partners.

Sessions combine short-term strategies and longer conversations, depending on what a person needs. People often leave feeling less overwhelmed and with concrete steps they can try between meetings.

Vivienne aims to make therapy clear, steady and easy to fit into everyday life.

How therapy approaches translate to online care

Vivienne uses the Gottman Method to look at patterns between partners and to encourage clearer communication and repair after conflicts. This approach focuses on listening skills, managing repeated arguments and rebuilding connection in practical ways.

She also uses Client-Centred Therapy, which means sessions start from a respectful, non-judgemental place and follow the person's own concerns. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, offers structured ways to spot unhelpful thoughts and try small behavioural experiments that can reduce anxiety or low mood.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Vivienne discusses options with each person and adapts methods to match their goals and preferences. Decisions about which techniques to use are collaborative and can change as progress is made.

Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to provide flexibility. Video calls work well for face-to-face conversation, while phone sessions need less bandwidth and can fit into a short work break. Live chat and messaging suit quick check-ins, brief coaching or people who prefer not to use a camera. These formats make it easier to keep therapy consistent around busy lives and differing schedules.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Vivienne help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression and life changes, and also supports people with relationship problems, grief, sleep issues and low self-esteem.
What is her style of therapy like?
Vivienne combines listening-centred counselling with practical tools from CBT and emotion regulation, offering a mix of reflective and action-focused work.
How much experience does she have?
She has around 30 years of experience, including time working in the NHS, at Relate and in independent practice.
What professional credentials does she hold?
Vivienne is a member of the BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions operate through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementCoaching

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centred TherapyCognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Registered with

BACP

Languages

English