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Valerie Marsh

Practical, relationship-focused therapy with clear tools

LMFT Minnesota

Experience
23 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English

About Valerie

Valerie Marsh is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with 23 years of clinical experience. She focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, depression, and difficult relationship patterns.

Background and approach

Valerie uses practical tools so clients can start seeing change in everyday life. She draws on approaches such as the Gottman Method, attachment-based work, and cognitive behavioral therapy to address how people relate to themselves and others.

Sessions aim to identify unhelpful patterns, practice new ways of communicating, and reduce symptoms that get in the way of daily functioning. Valerie keeps language simple and tasks clear so progress feels manageable.

Her style is warm and direct. She helps clients build skills for coping with trauma, grief, addiction, mood struggles, and life transitions.

When needed she adds mindfulness and narrative techniques to help people stay present and make sense of painful experiences. Valerie also supports people dealing with parenting stress, blended family challenges, intimacy issues, and concerns like abandonment or codependency.

She works with practical problems such as career strain, anger, and eating issues alongside deeper attachment wounds. Therapy typically focuses on short-term goals and skill building, with room for longer work when needed.

Valerie partners with each client to set achievable steps and to adjust the plan as progress is made. She invites prospective clients to consider what they want to change and to reach out when they are ready to begin.

Evidence-Informed Approaches for Online Work

Valerie uses the Gottman Method to help clients notice communication patterns, practice interaction skills, and reduce conflict in close relationships. That approach focuses on concrete exercises and clearer ways of relating so people can repair trust and improve connection.

She also draws on attachment-based therapy to explore how early bonds shape current behavior and feelings. This work helps people recognize core attachment needs and try new ways of relating that feel safer and more responsive. Cognitive behavioral therapy is used to identify unhelpful thoughts and to build practical coping skills for anxiety, depression, and mood symptoms.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Valerie discusses methods with each person and decides together which tools fit goals and preferences. She tailors exercises and homework so they match what a client is trying to change and how they like to work.

Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy easier to fit into everyday life. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction for skill practice, phone sessions can be a good shorter check-in or when bandwidth is limited, and messaging options support brief updates, coaching, or between-session contact. These formats promote flexibility so therapy can continue around work, family, and other commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Valerie help with?
She helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions, grief, self-esteem, and parenting and family challenges, among other concerns.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her approach is warm and direct with practical tools. Sessions focus on skill building, clearer communication, and step-by-step changes.
How long has she been practicing?
Valerie has 23 years of experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist working with a broad range of emotional and relational difficulties.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds LMFT credentials and practices in Minnesota with licenses listed as MN LMFT and IA LMFT.
Which languages are used during sessions?
Sessions are offered in English only; international clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Valerie offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I get started with therapy?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

23+ years

Licensed in

Minnesota, Iowa

Languages

English