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Tara Ashley

Practical, collaborative therapy for real-life struggles

LICSW, LCSW Montana

Experience
16 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Tara

Tara Ashley is a licensed social worker with 16 years of clinical experience in Montana. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and the everyday challenges that make life feel overwhelming.

Background and approach

Tara focuses on practical steps clients can use right away to feel steadier and more able to cope. Her work often centers on relationship concerns, intimacy struggles, and the strain that comes with parenting and caregiving.

She also helps people handle major life transitions like divorce or job changes. Trauma, post-traumatic stress, and compassion fatigue are other areas she addresses in sessions.

Tara blends several approaches to match the needs of each person. She uses Gottman Method ideas for relationship patterns, cognitive behavioral strategies to shift unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, and acceptance and commitment work to clarify values and build committed action.

Her style is collaborative and down-to-earth, so sessions focus on what is useful and doable for the client. People meet her for help with sleep problems, anger, low self-esteem, and career questions as well as more complex diagnoses such as bipolar disorder.

She also supports women through pregnancy, childbirth, and related life stages. Tara aims to make therapy a calm, practical place to work through problems and try new ways of coping.

Her sessions are conversational and goal-oriented. She listens first, then offers tools, options, and a plan clients can try between sessions.

The goal is steady progress rather than quick fixes.

Therapeutic approaches suited to online care

Gottman Method ideas focus on how people interact in relationships. Online sessions can review communication patterns, teach skills for managing fights, and practice new ways of relating. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice difficult thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It is useful for stress, anxiety, and making purposeful life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and behavior and offers practical strategies to change unhelpful patterns, which can help with depression, sleep problems, and anxiety.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Tara will discuss goals and preferences and together decide what methods to try first. That collaborative process helps tailor sessions to a client's needs and lets techniques be adjusted as progress unfolds.

Online therapy offers flexibility and makes it easier to fit brief or regular sessions into a busy life. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction for skill practice, phone sessions can be used when bandwidth is limited, live chat is helpful for short check-ins, and text-based messaging supports ongoing struggles between appointments. These options help people stay consistent with therapy even when schedules are tight.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Tara commonly address?
She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, trauma and abuse, parenting strain, burnout, and life transitions like divorce.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her approach is collaborative and practical. Sessions mix conversational listening with tools from approaches such as Gottman Method ideas, ACT, CBT, and DBT.
What background and experience does she have?
Tara has 16 years of clinical experience working with a range of concerns, including post-traumatic stress, compassion fatigue, and women's health issues.
What credentials and location information are provided?
She holds a Minnesota Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (MN LICSW) and a Montana Licensed Clinical Social Worker (MT LCSW) and practices in Montana.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English only and international clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available online?
Therapy can be conducted via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on what fits the client's needs.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability and therapy uses a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseParenting issuesCompassion fatigue

Also works with

Family conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoaching

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

16+ years

Licensed in

Minnesota, Montana

Languages

English