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Dr. Sarah Enderby

Relationship and identity-focused counsellor

BACP United Kingdom

Experience
5 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Relationship
Approaches
Gottman Method, Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English

About Sarah

Dr. Sarah Enderby helps people who are struggling with anxiety, stress, depression and relationship or intimacy difficulties.

Background and approach

She also supports those facing grief, trauma, identity questions including LGBT concerns, and life changes that feel overwhelming. Her approach aims to make sense of emotional patterns and to help clients feel more connected to themselves and others.

Sarah draws on several therapy approaches to match what each person needs. She uses the Gottman Method ideas when relationship skills and communication are central.

Attachment-Based Therapy and Client-Centred work help her focus on how early relationships shape current feelings and choices. Before becoming a counsellor she spent many years in corporate research roles and brings that curiosity to sessions.

She holds a Doctorate and an MA, and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. Her clinical background also includes training in psychodynamic approaches and experience working with Relate.

Sessions are practical and conversational. She listens for patterns that keep repeating and helps people try new ways of relating.

For some clients that means learning to set boundaries or manage anger. For others it means gently revisiting difficult memories to reduce their hold on day-to-day life.

Sarah keeps things straightforward and compassionate. She aims to create a calm space where clients can talk honestly and work out what matters next.

If you are feeling unsure, isolated or stuck, she helps you take the small steps that lead to clearer choices.

How therapeutic approaches work online

The Gottman Method focuses on communication and practical skills for couples and partners. Online sessions using Gottman ideas often involve role-play of conversations, learning repair strategies and building routines that improve trust and closeness.

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds shape adult relationships. Online work helps people notice their attachment patterns and try different responses when feeling anxious, distant or overwhelmed.

Client-Centred Therapy puts the client's experience at the centre and emphasises being heard without judgement. In remote sessions this tends to mean open conversation, validation and pacing the work to what feels manageable.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk through goals, try different methods and adjust the plan as you learn what helps most. This means the work evolves to fit your needs rather than forcing a single style.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls let you see each other and use visual exercises. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or when being off-camera helps. Live chat and text-based messaging suit quick check-ins, shorter reflections or day-to-day coaching between longer sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, caregiving and other commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?
She supports people with anxiety, stress, depression and relationship or intimacy problems. Other areas include trauma, grief, eating and sleeping issues, self-esteem, ADHD and parenting-related strain.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is conversational and practical. She listens for repeating patterns and helps people try new ways of relating and coping.
What is her background and experience?
She has five years of clinical practice and a prior career in corporate research. She holds an MA and a Doctorate and has trained in psychodynamic work and Relate couple counselling.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and works from the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English. She is not currently accepting international clients.
What session formats does she offer?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are costs arranged?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability and is managed through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by clicking the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centred TherapyGottman MethodPsychodynamic TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Registered with

BACP

Languages

English