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Noel Nightingale Follis

Compassionate, practical counseling for life and relationships

LCPC Illinois

Experience
5 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Noel

Noel Nightingale Follis is an Illinois-licensed counselor who helps people handle stress, anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, and major life changes. She also supports clients facing addiction, grief, trauma, intimacy concerns, sleep and eating problems, parenting challenges, and career stress.

Background and approach

Noel uses straightforward conversation and practical strategies to make therapy feel manageable from the first session. Noel follows a client-centered style that prioritizes what each person brings to the room.

She pairs that approach with tools from cognitive behavioral therapy to spot patterns and shift unhelpful thinking. She also draws on Gottman Method ideas when partners want to improve communication and connection.

Sessions move at a steady, respectful pace. Noel listens first, then helps set small, realistic goals for change.

She uses mindful exercises and acceptance work to help clients tolerate difficult feelings while building new habits and responses. People can expect a collaborative process where problems are named and steps are practiced between sessions.

Noel encourages short experiments in daily life so progress is concrete and visible. She aims to reduce overwhelm and increase skills for coping with stress and relationship conflict.

Noel holds the Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor credential, LCPC, and brings five years of clinical experience. She offers sessions from Illinois in English and uses flexible formats to fit different schedules.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care

Noel blends the Gottman Method with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy in ways that suit online work. The Gottman Method focuses on improving communication and reducing conflict in relationships through clear interaction skills and shared exercises. It can help partners practice better listening and repair after arguments. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, teaches people to notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck, then commit to values-based actions that move life forward.

Choosing an approach is a collaborative process. Noel will talk with clients about goals, preferences, and which methods feel most useful. Together they try approaches and adjust based on what helps most, so therapy fits each person's situation and pace.

Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls let the therapist observe body language and run joint exercises for couples work. Phone sessions can be helpful when bandwidth is low or for a focused check-in. Live chat and text-based messaging allow shorter, more frequent check-ins and make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day. These options help people maintain continuity and practice new skills between sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Noel help with?
Noel supports people managing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family issues, trauma, grief, addiction, intimacy concerns, eating and sleeping problems, parenting strain, career stress, ADHD, and related areas.
How would you describe Noel's therapy style?
She uses a client-centered approach that emphasizes listening and collaboration, combined with practical techniques to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors.
What is Noel's professional background?
Noel has five years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples across a wide range of concerns.
What credentials and location are listed?
Noel holds an LCPC credential and practices in Illinois.
Which languages are supported and are international clients accepted?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.
In what formats are sessions offered?
Therapy is available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different preferences.
How are fees and billing handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What is the first step to begin therapy?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Licensed in

Illinois

Languages

English