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Nicole Green Singer

Compassionate practical therapy for life’s challenges

LPC, LCPC Kansas

Experience
16 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English

About Nicole

Nicole Green Singer is a Licensed Professional Counselor with 16 years of experience. She practices in Kansas and brings practical, straightforward care to people dealing with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma, mood concerns, and relationship strain.

Background and approach

Nicole uses a mix of well-known approaches to help people learn new skills and make changes that matter. Sessions focus on learning concrete tools for managing intense feelings, improving communication, and handling daily challenges.

She values a down-to-earth style and keeps sessions goal-focused and collaborative. Her background includes a Master’s degree in Rehabilitation and Mental Health Counseling from Emporia State University and licensure as an LPC in Missouri and an LCPC in Kansas.

That training supports work with complex issues such as bipolar disorder, grief, eating and sleeping problems, and co-occurring conditions. Nicole often blends client-centered listening with cognitive behavior strategies and attachment ideas to address patterns that keep people stuck.

She uses techniques from Dialectical Behavior Therapy when emotion regulation is needed, and Gottman Method ideas when relationship skills are the focus. Her approach is practical and sometimes lightened with humor when appropriate.

Nicole also coordinates care with physicians, psychiatrists, and nutritionists when that will help a treatment plan. She aims to give people clear steps they can use between sessions to feel more in control.

People who work with her can expect direct guidance on coping skills, communication, boundary-setting, and long-term self-management. The emphasis is on helping clients build sustainable habits and meet realistic goals.

Practical approaches for online therapy and relationship work

Nicole often uses Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early patterns affect current relationships. This approach helps people notice connection styles and learn new ways of relating that reduce anxiety and improve closeness.

She also draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and actions. CBT is useful for anxiety, depression, and habits that interfere with daily life because it teaches concrete strategies to change thinking and behavior.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Nicole talks with each person about their goals and preferences and adapts methods to fit their needs. This collaborative process means techniques can be mixed or adjusted over time as progress is made.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is good for in-depth sessions that rely on visual cues, while phone sessions can be a simpler option when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and messaging let people check in between appointments or fit brief coaching into a busy day. These options make it easier to keep therapy consistent around work, family, and other demands.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?
Nicole works with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma, bipolar disorder, depression, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating and sleeping problems, parenting and career stress, ADHD, and many related concerns listed in her specialties.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style combines client-centered listening with practical skill building. Sessions are collaborative and focus on tools for emotion regulation, communication, and behavior change.
What is her professional background?
She has 16 years of clinical experience and holds a Master’s degree in Rehabilitation and Mental Health Counseling from Emporia State University.
Which credentials and location apply to her practice?
Nicole is an LPC (Licensed Professional Counselor) and an LCPC (Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor), practicing in Kansas with prior licensure in Missouri.
Are sessions offered in other languages or internationally?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

16+ years

Licensed in

Missouri, Kansas, Louisiana

Languages

English