Nicola Murray
Compassionate, practical counselling for adults
BACP United Kingdom
- Experience
- 6 years in practice
- Focus areas
- Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Relationship
- Approaches
- Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Languages
- English
About Nicola
Nicola Murray is a counsellor with six years' experience helping adults manage anxiety, stress and life changes. She works with people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward.
Background and approach
Nicola aims to help clients find practical ways to cope and reconnect with their sense of self. She trained in cognitive behavioural therapy, often called CBT, and uses it alongside other approaches to suit each person.
Sessions are collaborative - Nicola listens first, then helps set small, realistic steps. That might mean practising new ways of thinking, trying different communication skills, or learning tools to manage strong emotions.
Nicola has particular experience with intimacy and relationship patterns, anger, trust issues, ADHD and obsessive-compulsive concerns. She also supports people facing grief, addiction, career strain, parenting pressures and caring roles.
Nicola can help with sleep and eating difficulties, low self-esteem, and coping after separation or loss. The Gottman Method features in her work when the focus is on how partners talk and reconnect.
Attachment-based ideas are used to look at patterns formed in close relationships. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy techniques may be offered to build values-led actions alongside symptom management.
Sessions are offered in English and she works with clients in the United Kingdom and internationally. Nicola uses a conversational, down-to-earth style and a step-by-step pace that fits people who want practical change as well as emotional understanding.
Therapeutic approaches suited to online work
Nicola often combines the Gottman Method with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to address relationship and personal concerns. The Gottman Method focuses on how partners communicate and reconnect, offering practical exercises to reduce conflict and rebuild closeness. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people accept difficult thoughts and feelings while taking actions that match their values, which can reduce avoidance and increase meaningful activity.Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Nicola will discuss your goals and try approaches that match your needs and preferences. Over a few sessions she will check what helps most and adapt the work so it feels useful and manageable for you.
Online therapy offers flexible ways to meet. Video calls let you work face to face when visual cues matter. Phone sessions are useful when bandwidth is limited or you need a shorter check-in. Live chat and text-based messaging can suit people who prefer writing, need frequent brief contact, or want to fit sessions around busy days. These options make it easier to access consistent support from UK-based and international clients while working on relationship patterns, anxiety, stress and everyday coping.
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Experience
6+ years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English