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Nancy Benner

Practical, experienced LCSW for life and relationships

LCSW Oregon

Experience
24 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Nancy

Nancy Benner is a licensed clinical social worker with 24 years of experience helping people manage stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and relationship struggles. She also supports people facing trauma and abuse, addiction concerns, eating issues, bipolar mood challenges, and major life transitions.

Background and approach

Her tone is direct and steady, aimed at someone who needs practical help now. Nancy begins by listening to each person's story and figuring out what matters most to them.

She uses a person-centered way of working that focuses on strengths and on what the client is ready to change. That makes it easier to set clear, achievable steps together.

Alongside a client-centered stance, she draws on cognitive behavioral strategies to identify patterns of thought and behavior that keep problems going. She also uses elements of dialectical behavior therapy to teach emotion regulation and coping skills when feelings feel overwhelming.

Nancy incorporates relationship tools influenced by the Gottman Method to help partners improve communication and reduce conflict. Mindfulness practices are introduced when helpful to reduce reactivity and build present-moment awareness.

She practices in Oregon and offers sessions by video, phone, live chat, or text messaging. Nancy aims to make therapy an approachable, practical process so people can steadily move toward clearer choices and feeling more able to handle daily life.

Therapeutic Approaches Online and How They Help

Nancy uses the Gottman Method ideas to help partners improve how they communicate and reduce repeated fights, focusing on specific interaction habits and repair strategies that improve connection. Client-Centered Therapy is a core part of her work and means sessions begin with open listening and respect for each person's values and pace; it helps people feel understood and turn insight into small, manageable changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, is used to spot unhelpful thought and behavior patterns and to teach practical tools for mood, anxiety, and coping with life changes.

Choosing an approach is a collaborative process. She will talk with clients about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn't helped before. Together they decide which methods to use and adjust the plan as progress unfolds so the work fits each person's life.

Online sessions offer flexibility with video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or for a check-in. Live chat and text messaging provide shorter, written check-ins and can fit into busy days. These options make it easier to schedule therapy around work, childcare, or travel while keeping the focus on meaningful, practical progress.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Nancy help with?
Nancy supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, relationship problems, addictions, eating concerns, anger, self-esteem, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is person-centered and practical. She listens first, then collaborates on concrete steps and skills that match each person's needs.
What experience does she bring?
She has 24 years of clinical experience working with a wide range of mental health and relationship issues.
What are her credentials and where is she located?
She holds an LCSW credential and practices in Oregon.
Which languages are offered and are international clients accepted?
Sessions are offered in English, and international clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How does pricing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityJealousyMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

24+ years

Licensed in

Oregon

Languages

English