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Mitchell Stevens

Practical, down-to-earth counselling for adults

BACP United Kingdom

Experience
12 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Mitchell

Mitchell Stevens is a counsellor and therapist with 12 years of experience and full membership of the British Association of Counsellors & Psychotherapists (BACP). He offers online counselling in English for adults aged 18 and over.

Background and approach

He draws on his own lived experience to relate to people going through hard times and keeps a down-to-earth style in sessions. Before training as a therapist, he spent many years working in the music industry, and later supported people in the voluntary sector with homelessness, addiction and mental health.

That background gives him practical knowledge of complex life situations and creative pressures. The work in sessions is straightforward and conversational.

Mitchell uses approaches such as the Gottman Method for relationship matters, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and attachment-based ideas alongside cognitive methods. He helps clients talk through anxiety, depression, grief, addiction and difficulties with identity and intimacy.

Mitchell says his own therapy shaped his way of helping others. He aims to make space for honesty, sometimes using humour, and to be a real person in the room.

He also draws on experience supporting stepfamily and blended family dynamics. Clients can expect a focus on what they want to change.

Mitchell supports practical steps and new ways of thinking, while also noticing patterns from the past. Sessions are offered via video call, phone, live chat or text messaging to fit different needs.

For people wanting to begin, he uses a simple online matching process to connect and arrange sessions according to availability.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online sessions

Mitchell draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy alongside relationship-focused work such as the Gottman Method. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck, and supports taking actions that match personal values. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds shape current relationships and helps people change unhelpful patterns in connection and trust. The Gottman Method offers structured ideas for improving communication and managing conflict in close relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Mitchell will talk with each person about their goals, preferences and what feels most useful, and then try methods that match those aims. That collaborative process means approaches may be mixed or adjusted over time to suit how a person responds.

Online therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to make it easier to fit therapy into life. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation, phone can be simpler when bandwidth is limited, live chat suits shorter check-ins, and messaging works well for ongoing reflection between sessions. These options give flexibility for people balancing work, family or travel while keeping therapy accessible.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this therapist help with?
He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, addiction, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, self-esteem and many other life challenges listed in his profile.
What is his therapeutic style like?
Sessions are plain-spoken and conversational. He aims to be relatable, uses some humour, and focuses on practical changes alongside exploring patterns from the past.
How much experience does he have?
He has 12 years of professional experience working in community and voluntary settings and in independent practice.
What credentials and region are recorded for this therapist?
He is a full member of the British Association of Counsellors & Psychotherapists (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.
What session formats does he offer?
He provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different preferences.
How does pricing work for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseAnger managementSelf esteem

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centred TherapyCognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

12+ years

Registered with

BACP

Languages

English