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Kristin Young

Practical, accepting therapy for intimacy and anxiety struggles

LCSW New Jersey

Experience
7 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Relationship
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Kristin

Kristin Young is a licensed clinical social worker in New Jersey who helps people manage stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy concerns, and depression. She works with issues related to sexual identity and LGBT matters.

Background and approach

Kristin also supports people dealing with body image, sexual dysfunction, kink and BDSM questions, polyamory, and feelings of isolation. Her style is direct and accepting.

She treats clients as the experts on their own lives and focuses on practical steps they can try between sessions. Kristin blends talk therapy with goal-focused techniques to reduce worry, improve communication, and rebuild intimacy where it has stalled.

Kristin uses several therapy approaches to match each person's needs. That includes the Gottman Method for relationship patterns, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to clarify values and create committed action, and attachment-based ideas to understand how early bonds affect current relationships.

She also draws from client-centered methods and cognitive behavioral techniques when useful. Sessions aim to be straightforward and collaborative.

Kristin will listen, reflect what she hears, and suggest skills to practice. Over time the work typically focuses on clearer communication, healthier boundaries, and small behavior changes that add up.

Kristin has seven years of professional experience and holds an LCSW, Licensed Clinical Social Worker. She sees clients via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging for flexible scheduling.

Online approaches for relationships, values, and coping

Kristin often uses the Gottman Method to look at how people interact in relationships. This approach focuses on patterns of communication, stress reactions, and small rituals that either help or hurt connection. It can help people strengthen friendship, reduce conflict cycles, and increase understanding between partners.

She also uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, which helps people clarify what matters most and take action even when worry or doubt is present. ACT is useful for anxiety, depression, and decisions about sexuality or relationship choices. Attachment-based ideas are used to notice how childhood bonds shape expectations and closeness today, which can guide work on trust and emotional safety.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Kristin will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their needs, goals, and comfort level. She adjusts tools over time if something isn't helping.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video is good for longer conversations and teaching exercises. Phone calls work well when bandwidth is limited or a voice check-in is needed. Live chat or text messaging can support quick check-ins, brief coaching, or ongoing reminders between meetings. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life and keep progress moving.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Kristin help people with?
She supports stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy concerns, and LGBT-related issues. Additional focus areas include kink and BDSM, body image, polyamory, and sexual dysfunction.
What is Kristin's therapeutic style?
Her approach is collaborative and nonjudgmental. Sessions mix listening with practical skills and homework to improve communication and reduce anxiety.
What background and experience does she bring?
Kristin has seven years of professional experience working with the listed concerns. She emphasizes helping people build on their strengths and take manageable steps forward.
Which credentials and location apply to this therapist?
She holds an LCSW, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and practices in New Jersey.
In what languages can someone work with Kristin?
Sessions are offered in English.
Does she work with people outside the U.S.?
International clients are not currently accepted.
How are sessions delivered?
Therapy is offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and preferences.
How are costs and getting started handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

BDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageGender dysphoriaIsolation / lonelinessPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Licensed in

New Jersey

Languages

English