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Jay Sawyers

Experienced counselor focused on relationships and recovery

LPC Texas

Experience
22 years in practice
Focus areas
Relationship, Trauma and abuse, Self esteem
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Jay

Jay Sawyers is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Texas with more than two decades of experience. He helps people who are dealing with relationship struggles, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression, stress, and problems with self-esteem.

Background and approach

He also supports those facing grief, parenting challenges, addiction, and major life changes. Jay uses straightforward conversation and practical tools.

He listens first and then works with each person to build steps that fit their life. Sessions focus on clearer communication, managing emotions, and setting realistic goals.

He draws on several approaches to tailor care. The Gottman Method guides work on communication and relationship habits.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, is used to spot and shift unhelpful thinking and behavior. Mindfulness techniques help people become more aware of emotions in the moment.

Jay has experience addressing attachment and abandonment issues, blended family challenges, codependency, and recovery from domestic violence and substance problems. He pays attention to family of origin and fatherhood concerns when they affect current life and relationships.

Sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging. Jay speaks English and practices in Texas.

His approach is collaborative and paced to each person’s readiness to change.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Jay blends the Gottman Method, client-centered principles, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in online sessions. The Gottman Method focuses on improving communication patterns and building healthier interaction habits. It helps people recognize recurring arguments and practice new ways of connecting. Client-centered therapy centers the person’s experience and values; the therapist listens closely and follows the person’s lead to shape each session. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, helps identify unhelpful thoughts and behaviors and teaches skills to shift them.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Jay will discuss goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then adjust methods as progress is made. Together they pick techniques that match the issue and the client’s pace.

Online options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which add flexibility for busy lives. Video is useful for deeper conversations and practicing interaction skills. Phone sessions or live chat can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a quicker check-in is needed. Text-based messaging supports ongoing reflection and brief coaching between longer sessions. These formats make it easier to fit therapy into work, caregiving, or travel schedules.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Jay address?
He works with relationship problems, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression, stress, grief, addiction, parenting challenges, and related issues such as attachment and codependency.
How would you describe his therapy style?
Jay uses a direct, listening-first style that focuses on practical steps. Sessions emphasize clearer communication, emotional awareness, and goal-setting.
What is his clinical background?
He has 22 years of professional experience and has helped people with trauma, motivation, self-esteem, and coping with life challenges.
What are his credentials and location?
He is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Texas and practices from that state.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
In what session formats does he work?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How are fees handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What is the first step to begin therapy?
Start by clicking the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCompassion fatigue

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

22+ years

Licensed in

Texas

Languages

English