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James Coley

Compassionate counselor focused on practical change

LPC Texas

Experience
4 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Relationship
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About James

James Coley is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Texas who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addiction, and relationship or intimacy concerns. He also supports people dealing with trauma and abuse, ADHD, compassion fatigue, and identity-related issues such as LGBT and gender dysphoria.

Background and approach

His tone is straightforward and compassionate, aiming to make the first steps easier for someone who may be worried or unsure. Coley favors an approach that centers on the person in front of him.

He listens first and then works with each client to set small, clear goals. Sessions focus on practical skills and honest conversation rather than jargon or long lectures.

He believes steady progress comes from consistent effort and simple changes that fit daily life. In session he may draw on Gottman Method ideas for relationship-related topics, cognitive behavioral techniques to shift unhelpful thinking, and client-centered principles to keep the work grounded in each person’s values.

He also uses elements from dialectical behavior therapy and existential therapy when those perspectives help clarify choices and build coping skills. People who come to him often want real tools for managing moods, improving communication, or navigating big life changes.

He works with concerns like addiction, family of origin issues, blended family tensions, commitment worries, and healing after loss. James keeps therapy practical and focused on actions you can try between sessions.

He offers sessions in English and provides therapy through video calls, phone, live chat, and text-based messaging. James holds LPC credentials in Wisconsin and Texas and has four years of clinical experience.

How James Uses Therapeutic Approaches Online

James combines practical, evidence-informed methods to meet different needs. The Gottman Method is used when relationship patterns and communication are the focus; it highlights specific interaction habits and simple exercises to improve connection. Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, targets thoughts and behaviors that fuel anxiety or depression by teaching concrete skills to test and change unhelpful thinking. Client-centered therapy keeps the work rooted in each person’s values and experience, offering empathy and space so clients can find their own solutions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. He collaborates with clients to identify which methods fit their goals and preferences, and he adjusts techniques as progress unfolds. That means together they choose practical tools and check whether those tools are helping week to week.

Online sessions make the process more flexible. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and shared exercises. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging support quick reflections, ongoing skill practice, or brief check-ins between longer appointments. These options help therapy fit into busy schedules and different life demands.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does James help with?
He supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions, trauma and abuse, ADHD, compassion fatigue, and related concerns.
How would he describe his therapeutic style?
His style is warm and straightforward. He listens first, then helps set small goals and practical steps to try between sessions.
What experience and background does he have?
James is a Licensed Professional Counselor with four years of clinical experience working with a range of emotional and behavioral concerns.
Where is he licensed and based?
He holds LPC credentials in Wisconsin and Texas and practices out of Texas.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and he is not currently accepting international clients.
What session formats does he offer?
Therapy is available via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs.
How much do sessions cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCancerCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

4+ years

Licensed in

Texas, Wisconsin

Languages

English