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Deborah Petry

Relationship and addiction focused counselor

LCSW Connecticut

Experience
16 years in practice
Focus areas
Addictions, Relationship, Intimacy-related issues
Approaches
Gottman Method, Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Deborah

Deborah Petry is a licensed clinical social worker in Connecticut who helps people facing relationship strain, addiction concerns, parenting stress, and intimacy issues. She works with individuals and couples to clarify goals and find practical steps forward.

Background and approach

Her approach is collaborative and person-centered, allowing clients to move at their own pace while building skills that fit their life. Deborah draws on methods that give concrete tools and clear next steps.

She uses the Gottman Method with couples to introduce exercises and roadmaps for improving communication and connection. For individuals she applies client-centered listening alongside cognitive behavioral techniques to identify patterns and try different responses.

Her work also incorporates motivational interviewing to strengthen readiness for change and solution-focused strategies to set achievable short-term goals. This mix helps with addiction, codependency, commitment issues, and communication problems by turning goals into small, practical actions.

Deborah brings 16 years of experience as an LCSW. She has supported people through divorce and separation, family of origin issues, infidelity, mood and personality concerns, and domestic violence related impacts.

Sessions aim to be straightforward and grounded in daily life challenges. People who choose her can expect calm, direct conversation and focused skill-building.

She emphasizes clarity, realistic steps, and steady progress rather than quick fixes. Deborah invites prospective clients to explore options and decide what changes matter most to them.

How Deborah Uses Structured Approaches Online

Deborah uses methods that focus on clear steps and real-life change. The Gottman Method offers specific exercises and communication roadmaps that couples can practice between sessions to improve connection and reduce conflict. Client-Centered Therapy centers on listening and understanding, helping individuals feel heard while they sort through what matters most.

She also integrates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thoughts and test alternative actions for mood and behavior concerns. Together with the client she will discuss which approach or combination fits current goals. Choosing the right method is a collaborative process based on needs, preferences, and what the client wants to achieve.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy fit a busy life. Video is useful for exercises and face-to-face interaction, phone can be a simple way to check in without bandwidth needs, and chat or messaging works for brief updates or slower-paced reflection. These options support consistent work and make it easier to practice tools between appointments.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?
She supports people dealing with addictions, relationship struggles, intimacy issues, and parenting stress. Additional areas include communication problems, codependency, divorce and separation, infidelity, mood and personality challenges.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her style is collaborative and person-centered with a focus on practical steps. Sessions emphasize clear goals, skill practice, and steady progress rather than abstract theory.
How much experience does she have?
She has 16 years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples on relationship and addiction-related issues.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is an LCSW licensed in New York and Connecticut and practices from Connecticut.
Which languages are supported and can international clients work together?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Appointments can take place by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin therapy?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issues

Also works with

Intimacy-related issuesParenting issues

Additional focus areas

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

16+ years

Licensed in

New York, Connecticut

Languages

English