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Danika Girdner

Compassionate support for relationship and family stress

MD, LCSW-C Maryland

Experience
5 years in practice
Focus areas
Relationship, Family, Intimacy-related issues
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Danika

Danika Girdner, MD, LCSW-C helps people who are struggling with relationship and family concerns. She supports couples and individuals working through intimacy issues, parenting stress, anger, low self-esteem, and challenges related to trust and commitment.

Background and approach

She uses straightforward, practical methods in sessions. Conversations focus on improving communication and reducing recurring conflicts.

Sessions are collaborative and calm, with an emphasis on skills people can use between meetings. Her background includes five years of professional experience in clinical settings in Maryland.

That experience includes work with blended family problems, caregiver stress, and patterns tied to family of origin. She also addresses issues such as dependent or avoidant personality traits and difficulties with control and forgiveness.

Danika draws on approaches like the Gottman Method to look at how couples interact, and she combines that with cognitive behavioral techniques and mindfulness to help people change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy ideas are used when values and committed action need attention.

Sessions aim to be practical and paced to the client's needs. People can expect clear goals, skill practice, and regular check-ins on progress.

The focus is on making small, steady changes that improve day-to-day relationships and personal wellbeing.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Gottman Method work looks at everyday interaction patterns between partners. Online sessions can examine those patterns through conversation, role-play, and guided exercises that help couples notice and shift unhelpful habits. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, focuses on clarifying values and taking small committed steps. In video or text sessions this can mean setting clear goals and practicing value-based actions between meetings.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will collaborate with each person or couple to choose methods that match goals, comfort level, and life demands. She will check in regularly and adjust methods if something is not working for the client.

Online formats offer flexibility for busy lives. Video calls work well for conversations and exercises that rely on visual cues. Phone sessions can fit into a work break or be better when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text-based messaging are useful for brief check-ins, skill practice, and ongoing support between longer sessions. These options make it easier to maintain continuity and apply skills in real time.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist address?
She helps with relationship and family problems, intimacy concerns, parenting challenges, anger, and self-esteem. Additional focus areas include infidelity, jealousy, blended family issues, and caregiver stress.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
She uses a compassionate, nonjudgmental manner and focuses on practical skills. Sessions emphasize better communication, reducing conflict, and building emotional connection.
What kind of clinical experience does she have?
She has five years of professional experience working in clinical settings. That work has included supporting people with family conflict, relationship strain, and parenting issues.
What are her credentials and where is she located?
She holds an MD and is an LCSW-C, licensed in Maryland. Her practice is based in Maryland.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Clients can choose the format that best fits their schedule and needs.
How are sessions paid for and what does cost look like?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with this therapist?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. Then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesParenting issues

Also works with

LGBTAnger managementSelf esteem

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Licensed in

Maryland

Languages

English