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Alexsandro Amaral

Calm, practical support for relationship and life stressors

BACP United Kingdom

Experience
3 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, LGBT
Approaches
Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English, Spanish, Portuguese

About Alexsandro

Alexsandro Amaral is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who helps people with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship and intimacy concerns, ADHD, trauma and abuse, and self-esteem difficulties. He also supports people dealing with anger, coping with life changes, and LGBT-related concerns.

Background and approach

Alexsandro works in English, Spanish and Portuguese. He uses a person-centred way of working that puts the client's experience first.

Sessions focus on listening, making sense of what feels stuck, and finding practical steps that fit day-to-day life. He draws on a mix of approaches to suit each person rather than a single formula.

In practice he often blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, cognitive behavioural techniques, attachment ideas, and elements of the Gottman Method where relationship patterns are relevant. That lets him offer tools for managing difficult thoughts, improving communication, and rebuilding connection when intimacy or trust has been damaged.

Alexsandro trained and works as a psychotherapist and holds BACP, which is the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. He has three years of professional practice experience and has supported people with neurodiversity issues including ADHD and autism spectrum concerns.

People who choose him can expect straightforward conversation, practical strategies, and a calm space to talk things through. Sessions can be adapted to cultural and language needs, with attention to how moving between countries or cultures affects wellbeing.

Approaches that translate well to online therapy

Gottman Method techniques focus on communication patterns and rebuilding connection. Online sessions can use these ideas to work on how people talk, manage conflict and restore intimacy through concrete exercises and guided conversations.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people clarify what matters to them and take small steps toward those values. In an online setting this often means short experiential exercises, mindfulness practices and simple behavioural experiments to try between sessions.

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early patterns influence current relationships and emotional responses. Working remotely can help people reflect on those patterns and practise new ways of relating in real time with support from the therapist.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will listen to your goals and preferences and suggest methods that seem to fit. Together you can adjust the focus as you learn what helps most.

Online formats offer flexibility and practical benefits. Video calls are good for face-to-face conversation, phone sessions need less bandwidth, live chat suits quick check-ins, and text-based messaging works for short reflections and ongoing support between meetings. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, travel or different time zones, while keeping therapy consistent and focused.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Alexsandro help with?
He supports people with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, ADHD, relationship and intimacy issues, anger, self-esteem and coping with life changes, among other related concerns.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
His style is person-centred and practical, focusing on listening first and then offering techniques and exercises that fit daily life.
What is his professional background?
He has three years of professional practice as a psychotherapist and has worked with people experiencing neurodiversity, addiction and trauma-related issues.
What credential does he hold and where is he based?
He holds BACP, which stands for the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, and practises from the United Kingdom.
Which languages are available for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English, Spanish and Portuguese.
What session formats are offered?
He provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different preferences and schedules.
How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centred TherapyCognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Registered with

BACP

Languages

English, Spanish, Portuguese